Best friend dating ex boyfriend quotes
But if a lot of them are like “We just don’t get this so we’re not sure we can offer the best advice”, don’t fault them for it. When a guy knows that you’re willing to date your friend’s ex, it might cause him to wonder if you’re also capable of dating one of this friends up the road.
That puts your integrity into question which may put an expiration date on your relationship before it even really gets off of the ground.
If that’s the case, we get why you might be tempted.
But that’s not nearly a good enough reason to pursue anything beyond a hug when you run into him at the mall or the movies.
“Sara would never wear that” or “Katie actually likes this restaurant, you don’t? Honestly, at the end of the day, character should trump reputation.
You see, a close friend of mine, let's call her...
You’re dating this awesome guy and you’re happy and in love. You spend a lot of time ranting about her to anyone who will listen, you don’t care if they don’t want to hear it. For some reason, your ex-BFF gets mad at YOU for talking about her so much. When you run into them anywhere, you want to run the other way.
Then, for some reason or another, you guys break up. You try hanging out with new friends but mainly feel miserable and alone. You can’t understand why every other friend isn’t mad at her. But even though you’re furious with both of them, you still miss both of them so much and you hate it.
Just think about how uncomfortable it will be for the both of you for her to know that not only are you aware of some of the innermost secrets of her relationship but now, you’re going to learn about some of those things firsthand. If your friend does pretend that she’s cool with it at first (which is shocking all on its own), don’t be surprised if she’s not in the long run.
She has every reason to think that you dating her ex is a bit on the side of disloyal.